I was driving in downtown Baltimore a few days ago, when I came to a stop light. I couldn't help but notice a lot of people that were standing around and sitting where they could, in front of this building. I surveyed my surroundings and noticed the building these people were in front of, is a free medical clinic. The site I took in was very depressing. These unfortunate minorities on the social ladder were white,black, hispanic and asian. They were young, old, male and female.
From what I could tell, someof them were there for narcotic issues, alcohol issues and some were there for mental issues. Life has not been kind to them, for the life choices some of them had made or experience.
Looking at the people whos life seemed to be wasting away, got me to thinking of those who haveand those who doesn't. Two days prior, I was in the company of a millionaire, listening to his business ventures. Now, I was just feet away from those who struggle to scrape enough to get a cup of coffee or feed their habits.
Many of us don't realize, we are one paycheck, one situation or one bad decision away from being where these people are; mentally and physically. From the wealthy to the poor, we all have our own kind of struggles and battles to contend with; but when we are late on a few payments or one of those days, when everything that can go wrong does...think of those who doesen't have. Because these people that I obeserved, are dealing with day to day life miseries.
Gentlmen, we have stop playing ourselves, when it come to meeting or being with a woman. What you mean palying ourselves, some of you may say? There are men out there trying to buy women with words. For example: I can cook, clean, wash dishes, cut the grass..etc.
Then they go into, what they can do for a woman sexually. If you have to broadcast what you can do, then you can't do anything at all. Gentlemen, if you don't know this by now, listen up. A woman already knows if she is going to bed with you, within the first three minutes after meeting you. So you don't have to sell yourself, just be yourself and the rest will follow.
Then some go after the Queen, strictly for her physical attributes. Don't get me wrong, her physical appearence can be some of the est eye candy of the day, but what about her mind, kindness and tenderness; a woman can be damage for many years, if you are just trying to make her a nitch on your belt. So when the next man comes along, who really loves her, care about her and appreciates er; for who she is, then they both may lose out, due to her past experiences.
Gentlemen, I hope you honored this past Independence Day, by liberating yourself from the ignorance of playin' yourself...The women are not impressed.
Life is an amazing experience. As we travel on this amazing journey of time, we meet some interesting people along the way.
Some people come into our lives with the sole purpose of causing havoc and discontent; to our everyday existence. These are the people we need to get rid of, disassociate and run away from as fast as we can; because life as we know it, will be non-existent or in a unrecoverable disarray.
Other's come into our lives, that are a true blessing to us. They come with positive energy, tre inspiration and general concern about our well being. They are the people that will have your back , no matter what the situation may be. They will see you through turbulent times.
Some people we come across are so kind, that they just don't know how to say no to people. by not being able to say no to people at times, they bring along drama and crazy people with them in their circumference; that make life miserable to all who come in their space. So you preyfor them to stay kind and upbeat, but get the courage to say no to the people who doesn't have their interest in heart.
Be caeful with the people you let into your world. If they are positive, keep them close. If they are negative, trim them away. This is just something to think about, as we travel on this amazing journey of time; as we meet some interesting people along the way.